A Dance of Elegance: 10 Etiquette tips for attending the ballet

December has arrived, bringing with it the eagerly anticipated return of my favorite ballet to stages worldwide. Reminiscing about my childhood, I recall having a cherished video of The Nutcracker, which I would watch incessantly throughout the year. My fascination with the enchanting storyline, the intricate costumes, and, most notably, the breathtaking pas de deux performed by The Snow Queen and King at the end of Act 1 was unparalleled.

For the uninitiated, a grand pas de deux is a sequence of dances wherein a male and female dancer convey their love through the eloquence of ballet steps. Understanding this dance form adds a layer of appreciation to the grand pas de deux sequences in The Nutcracker, enriching the experience for those attending a performance.

Excitement fills the air as I prepare to attend The Nutcracker in Austin this weekend, accompanied by a dear friend. With the holiday season in full swing, it seems fitting to revisit some essential theater etiquette, ensuring a seamless and enjoyable experience for all those partaking in this festive tradition.

1. Dress Code:
   • Ballet performances are often considered formal events. Attire such as dresses, suits, or smart casual wear is appropriate. Avoid overly casual clothing to show respect for the art form and the performers.
2. Punctuality:
   • Arrive early to allow time for parking, ticket collection, and finding your seat without disrupting others. Latecomers can be a distraction and disrupt the immersive experience for fellow audience members.
3. Silence is Golden:
   • Turn off or silence all electronic devices before the performance begins. The serene atmosphere of the ballet can be shattered by the sound of a ringing phone, so it’s crucial to be mindful of your surroundings.
4. Applause Protocol:
   • Applause is an integral part of the ballet experience, but knowing when to clap is crucial. Generally, applause is reserved for the end of each act or the entire performance. Avoid clapping during moments of silence or transitional scenes to maintain the emotional flow of the performance. We also clap when the conductor and principal dancers enter the stage for the first time.
5. No Photography or Recording:
   • While it may be tempting to capture the beauty of the ballet, photography and recording are generally prohibited. The use of flash photography is especially disruptive, and the bright light can distract performers and fellow audience members.
6. Intermission Etiquette:
   • Use intermissions wisely. It’s an excellent time to stretch your legs, visit the restroom, and converse with fellow attendees. Keep in mind that loud conversations can disturb others, so speak softly and be mindful of the atmosphere.
7. Respect the Performers:
   • Avoid talking or whispering during the performance. Your fellow audience members, as well as the performers, deserve your full attention. Show your appreciation through attentive silence, allowing everyone to immerse themselves in the beauty of the ballet.
8. Tardiness and Early Departure:
   • If you must leave your seat during the performance, do so discreetly and during a scene change or applause. If you need to leave early, consider choosing a seat near the exit to minimize disruption.
9. Acknowledging the Artists:
   • Applaud not only the principal dancers but also the ensemble and the orchestra. Each person contributes to the overall success of the performance, and acknowledging their efforts is a gesture of respect.
10. Educate Yourself:
    • Familiarize yourself with the storyline, choreographer, and composer before attending the ballet. This knowledge enhances your understanding and enjoyment of the performance.

Attending the ballet is a unique and enriching experience that becomes even more enjoyable when approached with the appropriate etiquette. By adhering to these guidelines, you contribute to a respectful and harmonious atmosphere, allowing everyone to savor the magic of this timeless art form. So, don your finest attire, arrive on time, and prepare to be swept away by the grace and beauty of the ballet.