Answering your most asked questions!

Hey there, lovely readers! I’m delighted to bring you a fun and informative blog post today where I’ll be addressing some of the most frequently asked questions I’ve received as an etiquette consultant and elegant lifestyle content creator. Whether you’re curious about my journey or etiquette tips or want to get to know me better, I’ve got you covered. Let’s dive in!

1. What inspired you to become an etiquette consultant and lifestyle content creator?

From a young age, my fascination with becoming a princess ignited a lifelong passion for refining one’s lifestyle and manners. I soon realized that true elegance is defined by qualities like kindness, humility, and a desire to uplift others while embodying refined manners and classic style. In 2021, I took a significant step forward, embarking on a formal training journey with The English Manner and Beaumont Etiquette. This comprehensive program covered both British and American Social and Business Etiquette. After six months of rigorous training, I proudly earned my certification. However, my commitment to learning and self-improvement continues, as I’m currently pursuing additional certifications, including British Formal Dining Etiquette.

2. What’s the first piece of etiquette advice you’d give someone looking to improve their manners?

A fundamental aspect of enhancing your manners begins with deportment, which forms the basis of creating an impeccable first impression. Deportment encompasses not only how you walk and carry yourself but also the art of leaving an indelible mark in a room. It’s those who effortlessly glide through life that we remember. You too can master this art, and it all begins with proper deportment.

3. What’s your go-to advice for hosting a successful dinner party or event?

Successful event hosting starts with meticulous planning. While I adore hosting, I’ve learned that delegating tasks to others can be a lifesaver. After years of frenetic scrambling, I’ve discovered a few essential tips. First, plan every detail meticulously and put it in writing. Create a detailed schedule that even includes when to pop your dishes in the oven and when to serve cocktails. Second, don’t hesitate to outsource wherever possible; even Martha Stewart has help. Third, expect the unexpected. Mishaps are inevitable, but the conversations and memories are what truly matter.

4. Can you share a personal anecdote where etiquette significantly impacted your life?

While not a single anecdote, etiquette has been my guiding light in social situations where my natural shyness can take over. Having a toolkit of conversation starters and understanding the power of a warm smile has helped me create a more comfortable atmosphere at countless events.

5. What are your top three tips for maintaining an elegant and refined personal style?

When it comes to personal style, these three principles are vital:

• Self-discovery: Take the time to define your style, and remember, it’s okay for it to evolve. Knowing your unique style enhances your confidence and makes dressing enjoyable.
• Embrace Tailoring: Perfectly tailored clothing elevates your look and exudes a polished appearance. Whether it’s smart pants, tailored oxfords, or a fitted shift dress, well-fitted garments can adapt to various settings, from casual to formal.
• Accessorize Smart: Accessorizing is the finishing touch that can transform your outfit. Select accessories that complement your attire and express your personal style.

These principles ensure you exude elegance effortlessly.

6. Do you have a favorite book or resource influencing your approach to etiquette and elegance?

One invaluable resource that has significantly impacted my journey is Myka Meier’s “Modern Etiquette Made Easy.” I had the privilege of receiving instruction from Myka, and her book offers a practical overview of etiquette for daily life. I’m currently engrossed in Jacqueline Whitmore’s books on business etiquette as well, further enhancing my expertise.

7. How do you balance modern living with traditional etiquette values in your own life?

Balancing modernity and tradition is achieved by understanding the context in which specific etiquette rules apply. Sometimes, good manners are more about kindness and less about knowing which fork to use. Finding that equilibrium is key to an elegant and harmonious lifestyle.

8. What’s the most common etiquette mistake you encounter, and how can people avoid it?

One common etiquette blunder I often come across involves dining etiquette, specifically the handling of red wine glasses. Some mistakenly hold these glasses by the bowl, thinking it’s acceptable because their fingers can warm the wine. While this warmth might not be disastrous, it does leave unsightly finger smudges on the glass that someone must clean later. Dining etiquette is all about conducting yourself discreetly, drawing minimal attention, and leaving as little mess as possible for those responsible for the clean-up.

9. How do you stay up-to-date with the latest trends in lifestyle and etiquette advice?

Staying current in the ever-evolving world of etiquette and lifestyle is essential. I do this by maintaining a robust practice and continuing my education. Furthermore, I’m an active member of an Etiquette Trainer Society, and my training program includes an alumni group where we share ideas and stay abreast of the latest trends. This collaborative approach keeps my knowledge fresh and relevant.

10. What’s the best piece of etiquette advice you’ve ever received?

The most invaluable advice I’ve received pertains to networking, especially for those who may be shy or consider themselves wallflowers. Firstly, remember that everyone attending a networking event is there to meet new people, so don’t be hesitant to introduce yourself. Secondly, aim to arrive exactly on time. This is when event hosts are more accessible and more inclined to introduce you to others. The beginning of such events tends to have a more approachable atmosphere, as the number of attendees is lower.

I hope this Q&A session helped you get to know me a little better and provided some valuable insights into the world of etiquette and elegant living. If you have more questions or would like me to elaborate on any topic discussed here, feel free to drop a comment or send me an email. Thank you for being part of this wonderful community, and I look forward to sharing more elegant lifestyle content with you in the future. Until next time, stay refined and embrace the elegance within you!