Obsessed with good manners, great style, and a proper cup of Earl Grey.
ONCE UPON A TIME
As a child, I dreamed of being a princess—not for the tiaras and ballgowns, but for the grace, elegance, and quiet confidence they carried. But as I grew older, I realized true elegance isn’t about titles or appearances—it’s about presence. It’s about knowing how to move effortlessly through any social or professional setting with poise, grace, and self-assurance.
Yet, for many ambitious women, this level of refinement was never taught.
Some of my clients grew up with strong, independent mothers who saw femininity and traditional etiquette as outdated. Others were tomboys who never felt the need for refinement—until they stepped into spaces where elegance, social intelligence, and quiet confidence mattered.
I specialize in teaching modern women (and select men) the art of true sophistication—not as an act, but as an authentic embodiment of confidence, refinement, and social fluency.
With certifications in both British and American etiquette, I bring a unique blend of timeless tradition and modern practicality, helping my clients:
- Navigate formal dinners, cocktail parties, and high-profile social settings with ease
- Develop executive presence and polished communication skills
- Master cross-cultural etiquette for international business and networking
- Cultivate graceful confidence—without fear of judgment or feeling like an outsider
I earned my certifications from The English Manner and Beaumont Etiquette’s prestigious Train the Trainer Grade One Program, graduating with Merit—a distinction that reflects my expertise and deep understanding of etiquette at the highest level.
Whether you’re stepping into new social circles, elevating your professional image, or simply longing to embody refined elegance in every aspect of your life, I am here to guide you.
Because true elegance isn’t about wealth or status—it’s about the quiet power of knowing you belong.
MY REALLY OFFICIAL BIO, the TL:DR VERSION
Molly Tomlin, Dallas-based Etiquette Coach, helps ambitious women and professionals cultivate confidence, grace, and social sophistication through the timeless art of etiquette. With certifications from The English Manner and Beaumont Etiquette’s prestigious Train the Trainer Grade One Program, where she graduated with Merit, Molly blends British tradition with American elegance, empowering clients to navigate elite social and professional settings with ease. Whether mastering high-society events, executive presence, or refined social skills, her expertise ensures clients exude effortless poise—without ever pretending to be someone they’re not.
NOW FOR THE IMPORTANT STUFF
I like my tea and coffee black.
I’m on a 1,000+ book page reading streak and still going strong!
I am studying for my wine certification.
I have English heritage and British TV is my favorite.
Your at-a-glance guide to where I stand on all the truly important things.
Spa Day
HRH The Princess of Wales or HM Queen Mary of Denmark
Scrolling on Pinterest
Ballerina
London
A glass of wine or a gin martini
My husband
Coffee
European Countryside
Frasier or Downton Abbey
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